Finding pleasure in sexual relationship and intercourse usually requires effort from two participants. However, insisting on equality between partners may often lead to an experience that did not live up to its potential. We need to recognize that when it comes to the way we experience pleasure in intercourse is quite different between sexes. Ideally, we want to see both partners reach the climax, but this is often not the result in a situation where effort to reach that goal is relatively equal.
- Equality of outcome means that both the man and the woman reach orgasm.
- Men start off with a huge orgasm advantage over women, so it’s fair that they put in more effort.
- It was God who put the clitoris where it is.
“Men’s bodies were made so that the act of intercourse alone is usually enough to bring on orgasm; women’s bodies were created so that only a minority of women regularly reach orgasm like that.”